The Distance Between Us

Reyna Grande grew up in a small village in Mexico. They were poor and hopeless. In Reyna’s small town there was little to achieve and hardly anything to wish for. Their mother, who had them while still very young, repeatedly pursued ways to escape, often leaving her four children behind for months, even years while their frail but loving abuela took care of them. One day their Papi mysteriously returns from El Otro Lado (The Other Side - America). Reyna’s older sister Mago had been her little mother as far back as she could remember and although they were terrified to make this dangerous crossing of the border, they were also excited for a new life. Their Papi married an American citizen and in the 1980’s it was much easier for him to bring his children to the U.S. than it is today. Although he did not have more than a third grade education, somehow Papi knew that learning English and getting good grades in school were the most important ways to have a better life. He pushed the children hard and while he became despondent and an alcoholic Reyna and her siblings had opportunities he only dreamed about. This is Reyna’s life story - her eternal wish for a family, an education and god given talent that ultimately brought her great success - and the many people who helped her along the way. Loved every minute of this beautifully written memoir. Please take a moment to walk in someone else’s shoes. ⭐⭐⭐⭐